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Let’s just say there are things that you don’t want to see people doing, especially in public. I mean things that you expect them to do at home or somewhere private where no one can witness the event. Seeing such things would disgust anyone, anywhere….anytime.
First…we must follow a rule. It’s stated as follows: Keep the boogers in your nostrils unless it’s halfway out. No need to be digging them out if they’re tightly snugged between your nose hairs! No one wants to see you digging up to your second knuckle!!! I mean come on now!!!
I don’t want to be seeing anyone on Interstate 94 digging for moonrocks while trying to lane change! That’s just a major distraction for everyone on the road!! Let’s keep the bats in the cave until they are ready to come out or if it’s safe for them to be taken out. By safe, I mean, when you have a tissue in one hand, four walls, and a closed door surrounding you.
It’s also nice to have a safe place to put those gold nuggets that you have freshly dug up. A trash can or newspaper will be good enough. Just make sure it’s completely covered! No one, and I mean no one…wants to see a dried up nugget on the wall or on the bus seat! I mean come on!!! Please keep your treasures to yourself!!! I have no use for it and I don’t think the person sitting next to you is interested.
So the next time you plan to dig for that nugget or moon rock or want to free that bat from your cave…stay off interstate 94…so I don’t see you!
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hahaha…
ps…please don’t take this to the heart…
joke joke joke
Dig as much as you want. I don’t mind!!! I promise!
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Please tell me if I’m wrong? Tell me if I’m being too judgmental about this crap I’m about to bring up.
It’s just that I hate people’s laziness!!!! urgh!!
I’m not talking about the normal kind of laziness that we all have once in a while…or maybe most of the time! I’m talking about the type of laziness from someone who does completely nothing! I mean as students, we say we’re lazy.
However, we’re still in school right? We’re still trying to get something done with our lives. So, it doesn’t really fulfill the meaning of the type of laziness I’m referring to.
I just hate seeing people complain about how they are not satisfied with their lives, but don’t do anything about it. I mean does sitting on a couch seriously get you anywhere? Does exercising your fingers by flipping through the channels change anything to make your life more desirable? I mean come on! If you think so, then fine. I just don’t want to hear any complaints about it. Live your life the way you want to live it, just don’t bring others down with you.
I mean you don’t even have to prove much. Just get off your ass and do something. It doesn’t matter how small it is. Geesh.
I’m not trying to lecture or anything. I don’t want to tell anyone how to live their life. I don’t have the authority to do that, and even if I did I won’t. No one can change for anyone. You change for yourself, and yourself only. No one else. If you can’t change to better yourself, how can you do it for someone else?
So, no matter how many times someone tells me to tell that certain person to change. I will never do it. Sure, I will provide support. But I can’t do much. It’s that person’s responsibility to improve him/herself. That person will never change for anyone, unless they’re willing to do it for themselves.
Let’s look at this for a minute. Let’s say that a person has changed for the better because of you. I mean that’s great! It’s a start. But there’s a relapse. You happen to leave his/her life. What will be the result of that? It’s more likely that a person will go back to his/her normal, old self, because the person they changed for no longer motivates them to become a better person. If a person changes for they’re ownself, they have no one else to rely on during this transition. It’s like building that foundation in their life. They build by themeselves with their own hardships and effort. They make themselves strong without the help of anyone that can easily tear it down. Changing for yourself and not for others can make you a better person in the long run.
Now, I’m not saying that you can’t possibly use people in your life to help you change. Of course not. You can definitely find those people and use them as inspiration to help you to become more determined and motivated. But that’s as far as what those people can do for you. Just use them as inspiration. Don’t rely on the fact that you’re changing for them. No. You can change for yourself and it’s a better outcome.
Sometimes, it’s hopeless to help out. Sometimes it’s frustrating trying to get someone like that back on the right track. Sometimes, it’s just too painful to see another life go to waste and seeing others going down with them.
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This is so weird to explain.
There’s something that I am longing for lately. Ever since, I met up with some friends in Jersey. I’ve been kind of jealous. I feel like I’ve missed out so much since I left for Minnesota. I feel like I’ve missed out on some of the greatest, closest friendships. I actually want to move back to get some of that. I want the Filipino type of barkadas. I miss that. I mean my cousins have it! You know, I want to be able to spend time and talk about anything with them. Dont get me wrong, I’ve met some wonderful people in Minnesota. People who gave me advice and were there for me when I needed them. But there’s just something of a Filipino barkada that I can’t seem to grasp here. I want to be able to bond and share stories that are enlessly funny!
Then, lately I’ve been thinking about that one person who will make me complete. I shouldn’t even be saying that actually, because I should feel complete whether or not I have that person. I should be able to complete my own self. But, I want to be able to meet the guy that would make me laugh, share jokes with me, and give me more courage. The type of guy that I can joke around with. The type of guy that can brighten my day. I want everything to be memorable with him…even the first day we meet. I’m a hopeless romantic…I want everything like how I would see it in the movies. I want to share the cutest moments with him. eh. nakakainis…kasi hindi naman ako maganda! hay buhay…
I know that someday that I’ll meet this person. But, I just wish it would happen soon. I’m tired of waiting. I’ve been told that I might not find that person…and it discourages me. However, it won’t stop me from waiting.
I’m looking for another sabog like me! hehehehe.
I tried my best to explain what I want…but when I reread this blog…I didn’t even come close to fully providing the complete description of what I want….maybe next time…
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Okay.
So I just got back from the Philippines. And I have a few things in mind. But the most that’s bugging me is about a mistake that I made before I left.
Let’s just say that I’m not the type of person who would give false hopes to anyone. I would never try to hold someone and make them believe of feelings that I truly don’t hold. But, I got confused before I left and might have let my guard down. At first, I didn’t like this particular person because of his attitude and behavior. But, when I got to know him a couple of months ago, I realized that he also has a sensitive side. When he told me he has feelings for me, I totally denied the whole thing. I even laughed it out telling him that it’s just a joke! But I guess, I hurt his feelings for doing that. I just couldn’t imagine him liking me because he has always treated me like I’m some kind of joke. The one who he always makes fun of. The one who is his main target when it comes to criticisms of where I live. But I guess he changed. I saw that change in him and, then, I got confused. I started to think that maybe I’m starting to have the same feelings for him. We started to talk more often. I opened up to him about my family and some personal things. I told him why I am not willing to take it any further with him or with anyone I’ve met. Let’s just say my first conversation with him, was very awkward. I didn’t like how he kept asking me questions about my feelings for him. I’m sorry, but during that time I just recently found out that he likes me. I can’t just give him an answer right away. I don’t even truly know him… So I told him that I’m waiting for the right one to come along and then I’ll be willing to take the risk. But he told me I was selfish and that I will have a hard time finding that right person for me. I was hurt after hearing this. I think anyone in my position would feel the same way. However, I let it pass. I still communicated with him. But during this time, I was really confused. I don’t know if, maybe, I gave him some false hopes because I, myself, can’t remember what I have revealed to him about my feelings. I thought so much about this while I was gone. I don’t want him or myself to get hurt. I don’t want to continue giving him false hopes. If texting back and picking up his calls are giving him false hopes, I will stop. I just don’t want to keep doing something that might end up in a big mess that I have to later clean up.
I still don’t know how I’m going to deal with this. Lately, I’m just trying to lay low for a while. Maybe, it will all just pass and no confrontations will be needed. Maybe, I can just forget about it and he, too, will be able to do the same. For now, I’m just hoping for the best. But if you have any advice, will you let me know?
